i have not long come back from a very posh do in the centre of LOndon ,their was a mixture of people from all works of life and a few very well known people , I always find when going to these places which may be considered really posh and out your comfort zone to think of these people on the lou or eating breakfast with bits slipping all over the place .
Most people i met were lovely but their was one who seemed to be out of sorts a dn not a bit like the person he portrays normally.
This reminded me of a story when i have dipped in and out of ZEN philosphy so here we go
Once upon a time their was very big-headed man who visited a zen master for a cuppa as u do no idea where this was so the zen man made his tea were he continued to pour and pour into a mug and in the end it was totally over full and spilling all over the place ( u get the picture \)
AAHHHH said mr big head what r doing it is overflowing stop pouring he said
and Mr ZEN told him why the mug was overflowing ummm this mug is full of your opinions and all your view points and what u have done in the past used to empty yourself to rid yourself of the past and view the present !!!
I am not suggesting u try this at home but remember if u are at a place with lots of big big-headed people pour a cup of tea and going back to the do in London at the end of life we are all = their ends the lecture for today