I don’t like change i am happy with everything in the routine mode of u go here on a Monday and here on A SATURDAY and never the twain will change !!!
I know people on the autistic spectrum don’t like to do things different and I am wondering why !!!!!
My personal view is i am happy where i am which is Birkenhead on the Wirral we are not attached to that place known as Liverpool although people often think we are !
I adore where I live because I am not far from the sea city or country so have no great need to travel and see things although I have been known to do so
The reason I don’t like going on holiday is the preparation and the main thingbout my aspie me is i have to have books with me so u will never see with a little tiny bag as i have an incredible urge to carry thing s especially books and no a kindle wont do as it is not the same as a book
so when I go on holiday i like to take loads of books and also like to follow guide books when I get theirs it just makes me feel safe although one day I was taking a group of friends on a walk only to find an estate built-in the middle of the walkway this caused me quite a bit of stress as we were not going the right way and no end of ” does it matter if we go a different way would pacify me although can laugh at it now !!!
My parents are at the moment on holiday in Llandudno some sort of carers break as i am there daughter!!!! umm leave it their
This has been caused by lots of mishaps we have been reading about the awful weather all week and if it is one thing u cant control it is the weather but u still don’t want to hear about it “gales and rain this weekend” even if it is true !!
My mum broke her leg last October and has been getting on ok but twice now has decided to wash her hair in the sink downstairs which somehow causes muscles etc things to go all wrong and at the time of writing she was walking like a tortoise /robot on a bad day
My dad was muttering “every time we go away and why do we bother i told them to cancel which quieted things down and yes they did go
A few hours got a phone call from mum to say they were ok she had been in the hotel all day and my dad ha d a brisk walk on the front but this was making me fume “why go on holiday and sit in a room why not stay at home fume mad mad I could feel myself exploding but suppose what I got to remember is each to their own and live and let live !!! deep breath