ring ring v texts

I am not   the worlds   best at   communiCATER   WITH   REGARDS   TO   keeping    in touch with  people  I one of the  few   who dont   like   mobiles   and will often  read  a text  and   forget all about  it  .

I must  admit the   digital age   has made  things so much easier  for  keeping in touch with   people    and  younger people    are amazed  that   we just made   arrange ments  and hoped for the best .

My memory  is  strange  prob   cos  aspergic   and remember   weird    dates  and times   but  not  to carry   a mobile round   or   charge it before  coming out   , i  wld not  like  to carry  it  about in my  hand  whilst  walking   about so have  it  in my  rucksack sending me   quite   hysterical  if it   goes  off  , It went   off  other  day in coffee   shop   (  my friends luckily and   well  lucky  their  was   no visit to  A and  E  with  tea  splashing  allover   the place   and  my friend   claiming  ”  you should not have  asked for  such a big  mug  mug !!

I suppose   life is   easier  with      texts or   just  an  answer  machine  on the  land line   as  said to a  friend  u  have no answer   service and not on a  mobile  so cld not get through.

i suppose the modern way of keeping in touch   frees  u up for   doing other   thing  ,   can  answer    emails   texts   at a time to   suit you !!

I do  love my tv progs  and if   in the  middle of   watching   something    with my mum   will say if important  they will leave a message or   ring  back  their   is no need  to  react   Pavlov s dog  when   the  phone  rings  although sods  law  the  day   u    carry  on with   tv  or  reading  end of book  will be  the most   important   call  ever and  u will re gret  it for ever more such is life !

I am not   good with  people  who just   ring    me  text with   trivial   news  if u  got something to    say   out with it  I dont   like these  phone    calls  that  go on for   ever with   every bit of news  and   it  ends   with  me taking  the phone  away from  ear as the  person on other  side makes   strange  wahhhhhhh noise and  then  come back  to it and   they are  none the   wiser  this is  a   difficult  game to  play though .

I find   alot of  answer  phone messages    boring   so mine says  if u leave   an interesting message   I will  get    back to   you  this leads to problem s if   i generally  forget to  get back to them  and i get    comments   like  ”    so  my message   not interesting then    UMMM  !!

I think everyone  pet hate  with phones is cold calling i  have Often   insisted    gone on a long  holiday and you are  speaking to the maid   or   screamed  ”  cant u  see  I am  obviously not busy  or leave me   alonnnnnnnnnnnne  or   go    awayyyyyyyyyyy   and then slammed   the phone down this   does not  always   work cos  on an odd occasion the   cold caller    has  c alled    me back   saying   ”   no need  to be  rude !!
so really   let  the  phone   ring   dont      hump out  of  a bath  to  get  a call  about   your   computer   is not   working  or   you  need  to    get    a funeral plan ummm  ” I will  be  dead  so not   bothered !!!  if someone    really  want  to speak   to u they  will  find a way

as  Robert    FROST  says   FREEDOM LIES   IN BEING BOLD   but  you  can’t beat Invictus   I am the  master of  my fate   i am  the  captain of my soul

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About loubyjo

I have all my life been fascinated by words and books especially I used to have this strange idea that I could read every book in the world well maybe just 80% of them . My life can at times be really stressful as suffer my brains wires are all wonky which results in me having aspergers syndrome thats probably where all my crazy ideas spill out from !!!IIIalso have ocd which results in my thoughts getting stuck in my head causing me lots of distress , but hey what is perfection and if i ever met a perfect person it would probably send me fast asleeP AND YOU AS WELL SO iIam hoping to use this blog to let you lnow what it is like to be me !! in the last few years also discovered got ptsd this is were most of probs stem from
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