People are still talking about new year suppose it is still early on i am of but the view of the usual roller coast of a but a lot of it is through choice we decide what path to follow someone may offer a slice of choc cake and we may decline and then accept it and then b lame the person offering the cake instead of our selves !!
Buddhists and Hindus are firm believers on karma and must admit because of the traumatic life i have lived i often wonder what my ancestors have done to me but in general words actions do have consequences such as saying ” do you think you could take sam the dog out for me as shattered instead ” of ” CANT U SEE I AM TIRED CANT YOU EVEN TAKE THE DOG OUT !!! THINK IT Newton who said something abt profound abt cause or effect but please don’t use it in quiz section as not sure !!
Alot of people seem to be turning away from resolutions and have heard mentioned people are concentrating maybe on a word like kindness all though i start off every day and never quite make it through but a list was made by various do gooders !!! not saying i can do any of the m but here is a few
A keep your word / promise ( must admit do this and one of the worst things u can do is break a promise especially with kids ) i always actually say well i am not promising which not sure if that defeat the object)
B show respect to all ( well on the whole yer but sometimes just totally forget and rant and rave but this cld mean rspect to animals and plants as well )
C be a good friend well i try to but like today friend wanted to meet me for coffee but because of aspergers i have to have at least a days notice of more of what i am doing so ummm)
D look for the best in everyone ( mum does this I find it really difficult as i am a bit of a marmite person and i either like you or I don’t but yer work in progress
E Be kind ( my mum is again good at this but sometimes at the result she can’t say no to people and runs herself ragged perhaps i shld be more soft centred um noooh umm this is going to require a lot of practice
F when make a mistake say sorry as they say sorry is one of the most hardest words to say but once said the relief is enormous and you wish you had said it sooner
g SHOW FORGIVENESS THIS IS THE HARDEST ONE FOR ME PEOPLE WHO HAVE HURT ME IN THE PAST AND I MEAN HURT HAS MEANT GOT PTSD AND SO MY HEAD JUST LOOPS ROUND ROUND WITH PAST EVENTS BUT STILL GOT HOPE !!!!! MY MUM FORGIVES EVERYTHING HOW NICE TO BE LIKE THAT BUT JUST NOT ME WITH BEING ASPERGIC AS WELL LONG TERM MEMORY TO GOOD HA
POUR OUT LOVE AHHHH NO MORE OF THESE THINGS JUST NOT IN MY Personality oh well lets just say small steps
had enough of nice thoughts now making me ill but have read more and more of this kind word thing were u just focus on one word like fulness to concentrate more on doing more with life although not all words work like DECLUTTER umm I always think i may need that one day instead of ” do you really need that hey no !!!! oh well
steering wheel in my hand I am the master of my soul I am captain of my fate ( that actually does not sound right oh well !!